Charm is the art of having an attractive personality. While everyone is born with differing amounts of natural charm, much can be acquired and honed through practice and patience. The more you practice, the better you will become.
Hey guys....this time I wanna share with you 10 simple ways you can do to be
CHARMING. Someone might think you as their prince charming or at least Mr.WOW....who knows.. hehehe
1. Improve your posture. Good posture will give the impression of self confidence (even if you don't feel that way on the inside). While walking, maintain a relaxed yet definitive upright posture: spine long, shoulders back, head level with the ground. Walk with confidence.
2. Smile with teeth it is an opening gesture and more friendly than smiling with a closed mouth.
3. Relax the muscles in your face to the point where you have a natural, pleasant expression permanently engraved there. Always remain relaxed. If you find it tricky to relax your face, start with your shoulders. Are they up near your ears? That's a good sign you're tense. Put them back in place, correct your posture, take in a deep breath and smile.
4. Control your tone of voice.Voice should be gentle and peaceful.
5. Make a connection. When your eyes come in contact with another person's, nod and smile subtly with a subdued joy shining forth. Don't worry about the other person's reaction and don't overdo it.
6. Praise others instead of gossiping. If you are talking with someone or you are talking in a group of people, and up pops the subject of another person in a positive or negative way, be the one to mention something you like about that person. Hearsay is the most powerful tool in gaining charm because it is always viewed as 100% sincere. It has the added benefit of creating trust in you.
7. Don't complain about events in your day, discuss the highlights of your day! Nobody wants to hear how much your day stunk, and it will only make you seem like a depressed and pessimistic person. But at the same time, be sure not to brag about your day, you'll be seen as arrogant.
8. Orient topics toward the audience. This means taking into account topics that interest those around you, even if you are not so keen on them. Nobody expects you to be an expert. But if someone mistakenly thinks you know more about the topic, be genuine and simply say that your knowledge is limited but that you are hoping to learn more about it.
9. Appearance must be clean and neat and Dress well. Wear well-fitting. Clothes that are too small or big and that you have to tug at don't make anyone feel good! Just make sure you smell nice and look your best. This is the base of all beauty and charm. No one will find you attractive if you smell bad or look messy.
10. Be gracious in accepting compliments.
Get out of the habit of assuming that the compliment is being given without genuine intent. Be effusive in accepting the compliment. Go beyond a mere "thank you" and enjoin this with "I'm glad you like it" or "It is so kind of you to have noticed." These are "compliments in return." Avoid backhanding a compliment. There is nothing worse to a person complimenting than to receive the response "Oh well I wish I was as ______ as you/that situation." That is tantamount to saying, "No, I am not what you are saying I am, and your judgment is wrong."
Note: Remember that none of the above will actually work and be fully convincing unless it flows from the heart of its own accord. The truth is that real charisma is a gift and ultimately cannot be forced. But it worth a try. Effort and careful attention to the needs and desires of others will ensure that charm becomes a permanent part of your character.